Love App-tually? Couples who meet on dating apps are less happy in their marriages than people who meet in person, a study has found

  • Scientists surveyed 923 people who had met their partner online or offline
  • Those who met through dating apps had lower marital satisfaction and stability

While dating apps were once considered taboo, they are now one of the most popular ways for couples to connect.

Whether it’s Tinder, Bumble or even singles with food allergies: figures show that a third of marriages are now concluded online.

But a new study suggests that swiping right isn’t the best way to go if you want a happy marriage.

Researchers at Arizona State University in the US say couples who meet on dating apps are unhappier in their marriages than people who meet in the real world.

“The results support an online dating effect, particularly by showing that people who meet through online dating report different levels of satisfaction and stability than those who meet offline,” the researchers said.

Whether it's Tinder, Bumble or even singles with food allergies, figures show that a third of marriages are concluded online. But a new study suggests swiping right isn't the best way to go if you want a happy marriage (stock image)

Whether it’s Tinder, Bumble or even singles with food allergies, figures show that a third of marriages are concluded online. But a new study suggests swiping right isn’t the best way to go if you want a happy marriage (stock image)

Researchers at Arizona State University say couples who meet on dating apps are unhappier in their marriages than people who meet in the real world

Researchers at Arizona State University say couples who meet on dating apps are unhappier in their marriages than people who meet in the real world

The first incarnation of a dating app can be traced back to 1995 when Match.com was first launched.

Since then, thousands of dating apps have invaded the online space, and an estimated 21.9 percent of people in the United States now use them.

In their new study, the team wanted to find out whether online meetings had an impact on marital satisfaction.

Researchers recruited 923 married participants who were surveyed about their marital satisfaction and stability.

Around half (49.3 percent) of the participants had met their partner online, via dating apps such as Grindr, Tinder or Bumble.

The other 50.7 percent had met offline, including at work, in college or in a bar or club.

To assess their marital satisfaction, participants were asked to answer questions such as “How well does your spouse meet your needs?” and “How satisfied are you with your marriage in general?”

Meanwhile, questions assessing the stability of their marriage are asked, including: “Have you or your spouse ever seriously suggested the idea of ​​divorce?”

The results showed that couples who met online tended to be younger, had more dating experience and were more likely to have a same-sex or interracial marriage than those who met offline.

Participants who met online reported lower marital satisfaction and stability.

While the reason for the findings remains unclear, researchers suspect it may be due to the stigma associated with meeting online.

Liesel Sharabi, lead author of the study, said: “Our research shows that it is the stigmatization of their relationship that puts online couples under stress – they tend to face higher levels of social marginalization, either because they are more likely to be interracial or a mixed-race person is a same-sex couple or because they feel judged for meeting their spouse online.”

Fortunately, researchers say being aware of this stigma can help improve your chances of a happy marriage.

“By being aware of these obstacles, online couples can potentially have a longer, stable and happy future together,” Ms. Sharabi added.

How did online dating become so popular?

The first incarnation of a dating app can be traced back to 1995 when Match.com was first launched.

The site allowed individuals to upload a profile and picture and chat with others online.

The app should allow people who are looking for a long-term relationship to get to know each other.

eHarmony was developed in 2000 and two years later, Ashley Madison, an infidelity and cheating website, debuted.

Over the next 10 to 15 years, a variety of other dating sites were created with a unique target audience, including: OKCupid (2004), Plenty of Fish (2006), Grindr (2009), and Happn (2013).

In 2012, Tinder was launched and was the first swipe-based dating platform.

After the initial launch, usage skyrocketed and by March 2014 there were one billion games played per day worldwide.

In 2014, Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe Herd launched Bumble, a dating app that empowered women by only allowing women to send the first message.

The popularity of mobile dating apps such as Tinder, Badoo and more recently Bumble is due to a growing number of younger users with busy schedules.

In the 1990s, online dating carried a stigma as it was seen as a last-ditch attempt to find love.

This belief has evaporated and now around a third of marriages are between couples who met online.

A 2014 survey found that 84 percent of dating app users used online dating services to look for a romantic relationship.

24 percent said they used online dating apps explicitly for sexual encounters.

Drew Weisholtz

Drew Weisholtz is a Worldtimetodays U.S. News Reporter based in Canada. His focus is on U.S. politics and the environment. He has covered climate change extensively, as well as healthcare and crime. Drew Weisholtz joined Worldtimetodays in 2023 from the Daily Express and previously worked for Chemist and Druggist and the Jewish Chronicle. He is a graduate of Cambridge University. Languages: English. You can get in touch with me by emailing: DrewWeisholtz@worldtimetodays.com.

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